Wednesday, March 29, 2017

It's Just a Number on a Dress

We give Bibles wrapped in recycled prom dresses to the young ladies (and young men) who come into the Prom Closet.  As many of you know we gave away every single Bible we had. Last week, I sent out a Facebook message about needing Bibles to give to our Bible lady.

I have been praying and thinking about what we could do to find more Bibles and then Saturday guess who shows up?  Bible lady!!! Volunteer Kelley said something that stuck in my mind “Ask and you shall receive." How true! God is never late or early. His timing is always perfect!

One of our customers was at the mall and stopped at the kiosk to ask if Belk had any formal dresses on sale.  The attendant told her that she knows of a place that gives away Prom dresses and if she was in need she should check it out.

When she arrived, she explained that at first she wasn’t going to come because she didn’t know what to expect.   She said that by faith she came and was pleasantly surprised at how nice everyone was to her and her daughter.

Her daughter tried on several dresses and was beginning to get discouraged.  I noticed her staring at the size tags and getting more and more sad.  As they found the perfect dresses and were ready to check out, the number on the tag came up in our conversation and I knew that God giving us a golden opportunity.

I told her the number on that tag is not who you are.  It doesn't say anything about you.  That tag is just a number on a dress. Who you are comes from God. You were made in his image and He knows how precious you are.  He knows your name. 

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart;" Jeremiah 1:5a

This season 137 dresses have found their person since we opened for the season and 46 dresses were given out this past Saturday alone!

Remember we are not that number.  That number doesn't say who we are. That number just tells us how many seeds God has to help grow. Our job is to plant.  His job is to give them life.


- Aileen

Aileen is a You Tube star

The young ladies at Fort Mill High School did a great job on the Prom Closet story!  It is the last segment of their newscast:


Thursday, March 9, 2017

By the Hundreds

Matthew 13:8 (NIV) Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop--a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.
We are very close to our 100 dresses given mark.  That is 100 dresses given away, 100 seeds planted.  Pray that the soil is good and God gets the glory!

Last weekend we picked up 300 dresses from Girl Talk in Charlotte.  What a wonderful group they have and what a blessing to us just in time for Prom season!

We are also partnering with Joy Prom for kids with special needs.  We will be dressing the beautiful young girls and handsome young men.

- Aileen

Friday, March 3, 2017

I Will Never Look at a Power Outlet the Same Way Again

I must confess that last Saturday I was worn out.  After fitting dresses for so many girls I was hungry, tired, and ready to go home.  Worse yet, we still had a planning meeting to do!
At closing time the worst case scenario happened - a family came in to find a dress.  I must admit that I lost my cool at that point.   How would we start our meeting on time?  I need food!
I stepped into a side room to cool down when my eyes locked on a lowly power outlet.  God spoke to me through that power outlet at that very moment.  As I stared at the power outlet it became very clear to me who truly has the power.  I see now that God gave us a task to do but he didn’t give us the power over it.  The Prom Closet is under his power and belongs to him.
As I walked out of the room I saw power outlets everywhere!  Where are they when I need them?
It was at that moment that the last girl walked out of the fitting room in her new pink Princess dress and her mom exclaimed “You look like a princess!”
You should have seen the look on that young girl’s face.  I don’t know if it was the first time she had ever heard those words but it sure did seem like it.
As she admired herself in the mirror with the biggest grin plastered across her face I was reminded of who truly has the power.  I was reminded then and there that He changes lives every day through our works and we are just blessed to be able to see it.

It is more than a dress.  God made that little girl feel very special that day.  And worse, I almost missed it...

- Aileen


Monday, February 20, 2017

Off To a Great Start

This the first week that Prom Closet is open for the 2017 season and we are off to a great start!

This first week we have given away 51 dresses!   We were so busy Saturday that we had to scramble to make dressing room space.

Teen volunteer Olivia said she had a great time.  "People don't mind that I pick dresses and shoes for them.  They let me dress them!"



The Prom Closet saw a busy first day of the 2017 season.

God has great things in store for Prom Closet this year.  Praise Him!

God is not slowing down,   He is showing us how wide, long, high, and deep is his love.
From starting a prom closet with six dresses to planing a Special Needs Prom with no budget, I have learned that when God gives us a task he doesn't check our bank account -  He is checking our faith. Now that is deep and wide!!
We have been contacted to help with a national pageant for people with disabilities to be held in Charlotte called the USA Ms. Heels for Wheels.   I hope to give more info as the talks continue.
Dress pick up!!!!  We are going to be picking a large donation of prom dresses at Imaginon which could lead to a donation of over 500 dresses!
Hope Haven has reached out to us to help them again and they believe that this might be the last year that they host a prom for their residents. Please be in prayer for them as they make a transition.
Ephesians 3:18- (NIV)18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

-Aileen

Thursday, February 16, 2017

A Special Day for Some Very Special Kids

For weeks before this day, we had worked to make all the dresses look brand new.  We could all feel the excitement building as the day approached.  What did God have in store for us? 

We all felt those nervous jitters that come when you know you are about to see the Kingdom of God in all its glory.

As the bus pulled up our hearts filled with joy as each one of our special customers stepped onto our parking lot and made their way to our door.  This was not just any day at the Prom Loft in at First Baptist Church in Huntersville.  This was the day we were fitting dresses for the first very special prom for some of the students of a local high school.

“I hope there is a dress for me!” shouted a giant of a young lady.  At 6 foot 3 and size 28, we all knew that sizing this customer would truly be a God-sized task.

“God has sent you to us so there is a dress in here” I confidently replied.  Although deep inside I wasn’t so sure.  I looked over at Aileen, the founder of the Prom Loft, and when I saw her face I knew I wasn’t alone.

The volunteers went to work fitting the students as Aileen and I set out to find just the right dress for our new friend.

We tried dress after dress but nothing seemed to work.  In our staging area was a stack of dresses that we had not had a chance to put out yet.  A volunteer was going through the stack checking sizes and making suggestions.  One after the other nothing worked. 

All through this our new friend never lost her smile, or her faith.  It was her attitude that kept us going.

Finally the stack was down to the very last dress.  Could it be?  Yes it was a size that just might work.
Eagerly she took the last dress into our fitting room and no more than a minute later, a squeal of delight filled the room.

“It fits.  It fits!” she shouted.

That was all it took.  The water works came on as everyone in the Loft was filled joy and praise.  Truly that is what the Kingdom of God looks like!  She received her special dress for her special prom and we received our special blessing as we witnessed God at work.  What a great day!

Students leave the Prom Loft ready for their special prom.


Lydia’s Prom Loft was founded by Aileen, a dedicated volunteer at the local crisis assistance center Lydia’s Loft.  Formal gowns and suits were coming in to the center and there really wasn’t a need for them.  People came to the center because they needed essentials, not formal wear.

She started keeping the dresses in her garage with the thought that someday they would be needed. One day Aileen surprised me with a vision she had for the six dresses she had saved. 

“I wonder if there are young ladies who can’t afford prom dresses that may like to have these for their formals?” she asked.

Once word got out, those first six dresses did not last long as young ladies went home with their new treasures.  Just like loaves and fishes, those six dresses seemed to multiply.  One by one, more kids came and just when we thought there would not be enough dresses, more were provided from sources all over the Charlotte area.  By the end of that first season we had almost 100 dresses left over!

John 6: 5-14 
When Jesus looked up and saw a great crowd coming toward him, he said to Philip, “Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat?” He asked this only to test him, for he already had in mind what he was going to do.
Philip answered him, “It would take more than half a year’s wages[a] to buy enough bread for each one to have a bite!”
Another of his disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter’s brother, spoke up,“Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?”
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Jesus said, “Have the people sit down.” There was plenty of grass in that place, and they sat down (about five thousand men were there).11 Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed to those who were seated as much as they wanted. He did the same with the fish.
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When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciples, “Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted.” 13 So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets with the pieces of the five barley loaves left over by those who had eaten.
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After the people saw the sign Jesus performed, they began to say, “Surely this is the Prophet who is to come into the world.”

Out of the blue, Aileen got a call from a group that was planning to hold a prom at the Levine’s Children’s Hospital in Charlotte.  We decided to box up all the dresses left and donate them all to this event.  As the last of dresses were loaded into the SUV we were both happy and sad.  We knew the dresses were meant to go to them but we wondered too if this was the end of the Prom Loft.

God was not finished.

It wasn’t any time before Aileen got a call from the Junior League in Charlotte.  They had lots of formal dresses and shoes left over, too.  Would we be able to use any of them?

Another call from Girl Talk and we were back in business with seven times more dresses than we had the first season! 

In Luke 12:31 Jesus says “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need.

The Prom Loft is in its seventh season and the blessings just keep flowing.  Every year we keep a record of the number of dresses we have and each year they double.

Volunteers of all ages and backgrounds come to help in this special ministry each year.

Countless girls and boys have felt the dignity and joy of letting their beauty shine. 

Word continues to spread and the Kingdom continues to grow right before our eyes...

- Tammy